April 27, 2016

Province 7 Assembly 2016 in Ft. Worth


Just returned from the Prov. 7 Assembly in Ft. Worth. St. Christopher’s church was very welcoming and the 100 or so ladies had a lovely time. I carpooled with 3 sisters from the Catherine of Sienna Chapter, and we had a great road trip across Texas. (Didn't get a picture of the total of 5 Daughters from ABQ who attended. Above is a photo of the Province Board, consisting of diocesan presidents and the provincial officers.)
During the opening Eucharist, Daughters who have died were remembered in a lovely candle lighting ceremony, including those from the Diocese of the Rio Grande.
The theme of Assembly was from Micah 6:8 “What does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” This Assembly the focus was Justice.
We were delighted to welcome our new National President, Susan O’Brien, was at the Provincial Assembly. We (Prov. 7) were the first Province she has visited since her election at Triennial last June! She spoke on how ‘evangelism’ is really just telling our story, which is part of what we’ll be doing at our Diocesan Assembly in August. I’m sure you all have it on your calendar for August 5-6! Registration info will be out in just a few weeks. She also noted that to ‘act justly’, as in the Micah citation is our individual call as Daughters, and as baptized Christians. She asked us to consider ‘What injustice do you observe today?’ and ‘What can I do about it?’
Susan remarked that when we ‘love mercy’, it should be done extravagantly using the Prodigal Son as an example. Walking ‘humbly’ is to be obedient to God, which takes being aware of God’s actions. She shared that one of her prayer disciplines is to do photo journal walks. During these she takes pictures of things that remind her of God’s presence. (Doesn’t that sound like a great way to pray?) She made one of them into a card with the theme of the Assembly on it for each attendee.

During the business meeting, it was noted that we are falling down on keeping up with donations to our funds, esp. the Self Denial Fund. In 2012 there was $102,000 in the fund and last year, only $13,000. This is not because of excessive grants, but because donations are WAY down. It was suggested that if EVERY Daughter donated just $5 to the fund it would be a huge help. So…I offer that as a challenge to each chapter/Daughter in our diocese. You can donate online, or download the form to send with donation from the National website 'Support our Mission' page. The Provincial Assembly voted $771 to go to Self-Denial from the Eucharist offering and the $225 annual ‘undesignated’ grant monies. Each Diocese also gets a grant of $400. In the Rio Grande, this year, it went to the Rector’s Fund at St. James, Taos for help with outreach utility aid.
Susan O’Brien also encouraged us to focus meetings in a spiritual setting and format, perhaps even incorporating meeting in an area with candles, flowers, and other spiritual aids and to format the meeting as a form of worship by opening and ending with prayer. She stated that the Prayer List should take up no more than 5 minutes of the meeting time! At meetings she has chaired, members bless one another as part of the closing ceremony. One way to do this is to anoint each other’s hands as blessing. She closed with a prayer from Celtic Prayer From Iona, which is part of her daily devotions.
On my heart and on my house
The blessing of God.
In my coming and in my going
The peace of God.
In my life and in my seeking
The Love of God.
At my end and new beginning
The arms of God to welcome me, and bring me home.

Jennifer Stanton Hargrave, a family law attorney was one of the speakers. She noted that ‘justice’ depends on the audience, and can seem ‘unfair’ to us-esp. if things don’t go our way. Real fairness comes when we look outward toward the good of all, not just what I think is ‘best for me’. The Hebrew word for ‘justice’ is mishpat, which is to treat others equitably (love as we are loved). True justice must be outward and social and is the fruit of maturity along with joy and peace. True justice restores relationship between God and people, and requires generosity.

Valerie Maniscalco, communications director of the Genesis Women’s Shelter talked about the extensive work of the shelter. It has been in operation for 30 years and was the response of an Episcopal priest and church who wanted to help women escaping domestic abuse. Now the shelter offers a 6-week stay to women and children, with the chance to then move to a long term residential facility for up to a year. They offer schooling, counseling, legal aid, and are funded totally by community donations. Attendees donated diapers and baby wipes to the shelter. The Jr. Daughters made gift bags for the residents, too.
Fr. Mike Gemangani, Provincial Chaplain was the final speaker. He discussed how the purpose of justice is to make right what is wrong and to affect change. His talk can be downloaded from the Provincial website.
Following his talk, Fr. Mike presented certificates to the Arkansas Daughters who had completed the program Daughters Going Deeper. Some Daughters in the Rio Grande are currently working through the program. If you are interested in participating in the next group, starting in 2017, you can download the info and forms.
Assembly is always a time for renewing friendships and meeting new friends from all around. See you at the Diocesan Assembly in August in Silver City. Mark your calendar for next year’s Prov. Assembly: April 21-23, 2017 at Church of the Incarnation, Dallas. Triennial is in 2018 and will be June 20-24, 2018 at the Renaissance at the Arboretum in Austin, TX.
By the way-you can keep up with Provincial news and ask for prayers, etc. on the Prov. 7 Facebook page. There are more pics from Assembly on the Facebook and Prov. 7 website, too. 

March 22, 2016

You Are Invited to an Ice Cream Social

All Women of the Diocese of the Rio Grande (ages 7 and up) are invited to come to St. James Church, Taos  on May 14 at 1:30 PM for a time of fellowship, delicious ice cream, informal worship together, and a brief introduction to the Order of the Daughters of the King (DoK) by Cindy Davis, diocesan president of the DoK.
Even if you think you have no interest in the Daughters, come up and meet other women of the Diocese in Taos while enjoying a bit of fun and fellowship. There will be door prizes, plenty of ice cream (lactose-free and sugar-free options will be available), other snacks, and some surprises.
Contact Cindy Davis, diocesan president; or the St. James Office to RSVP so we’ll have enough goodies!

To Get to St. James (208 Camino de Santiago, Taos)St. James is located at the corner of Gusdorf Road and Camino de Santiago (Santiago Street), one block north of Paseo del CaƱon East (Highway 585) and one block east of Paseo del Pueblo Sur. (Map at: www.stjamestaos.org/getting-here)

The Order of the Daughters of the King is a vibrant, international and ecumenical Sisterhood of women and girls who seek to live out their Baptismal vows in relationship with Christ and each other, through the shared disciplines of Prayer and Service and Evangelism to women and girls. Daughters can be members of the Episcopal, Lutheran, Anglican, or Roman Catholic Church.
Jr. Daughters are girls (churched or not) age 7 to 21. At 21 they transition to a Sr. Chapter.
(Download a poster)


March 3, 2016

Jane Torrance Sargent Chapter hosts a retreat on Julian of Norwich

About 50 women (and a few men) from around the diocese gathered for a quiet day focusing on the words of Julian of Norwich at St. Alban's, El Paso on February 27. The Rev. Jeanne Lutz opened with a thank you to the Jane Torrance Sargent Daughters of the King chapter for hosting the retreat. 

Jeanne noted that Julian of Norwich’s book is composed of her revelations (‘showings’) of Divine Love. The real name of the author is unknown and she is named for the church at which she was an anchoress. She was the first to write in English and was a literary ground-breaker, esp. as a woman. Julian was born in 1342 or 43. She received her ‘showings’ at age 30. There is a short version and long version of the revelations, which are 16 visions of the Passion of Christ.
From the time she was a child, Julian desired to be more at one with Christ’s sufferings and to have the mind of his Passion. She also requested three wounds: contrition, compassion, and the knowledge of God. These she received at 30.
Dame Julian may have been a widow and probably was a mother, given her emphasis on the ‘motherhood’ of God. Certainly she was an educated person, living in Norwich which was a commercial hub and the second largest city in England at the time.
Tradition usually shows her with a cat. The date of her death is unknown, but the last known bequest for the ‘anchoress at Julian’ is from 1423. In her lifetime she saw much tragedy including the black death, peasant revolt, 100 year war, and collapse of the papacy. In all her writings, Dame Julian, never criticized ‘Mother Church’. She refused even to judge her own revelations, writing them down without comment. They show God’s all-embracing love and the supreme example of this is found in the Passion.
For Dame Julian, the father creator was not complete without the motherhood of God. She felt that the feminine imagery helps us understand the totality of God who has the properties of Fatherhood, Motherhood, and Lordship. Our soul is God’s beloved wife, and we are Christ’s sibling.
Julian was not the only mystic to use the feminine/mother images and it is found in the Gospels (hen, woman searching for coin, etc.)
Julian noted that "God is everything that is good..." Seen through eyes of creator everything is little and “We are crowning glory of creation.” To Julian, the soul is God's dwelling, a ‘fine city where Christ lives’. Our response to being God’s dwelling should be love for one another. We find love shown fully in the Passion, because it is "God's will that we have true delight in our salvation..."


In Session 2, Jeanne shared more about how Dame Julian felt about sin and Christ’s Passion. In one of her showings, God asked Julian, "Are you satisfied that I suffered for you?"
Julian also was very aware of the ‘Motherhood’ of God found in the Incarnation and the Passion. Even though sin caused the Passion, God assured Julian that "Sin is necessary...all will be well."
The word Julian uses for sin is ‘scourge’ and she sees us as harassed by sin because we fall into sin from ignorance, foolishness, and not having enough of God. Sin is like a disease to be healed and it violates the Christ in us. Julian says that “Passion is overcoming of the fiend" who God permits to work, because even Satan is in God’s hand.
Julian felt that the contemplation of other's sins creates a mist, and we cannot see clearly, unless compassion is involved. We must first learn to forgive self. This is through confession to love which makes power and wisdom available to us. Then we can overcome doubtful fears and accept God's forgiveness and turn back to him.
Julian noted that it is not what you are [now], but what you desire to be that God sees. Jeanne related one of Julian’s showings that involved a parable of a servant, who falls into a pit on his way to serving God. God does not blame the servant for falling, but rather says, ‘See what injuries my servant has had-should I not reward my servant?’ For Julian the servant is us and is Christ and is Adam.

In Session 3, Jeanne explored Julian’s words on prayer, the Holy Spirit, and the centrality of the Passion. Julian saw the Holy Spirit as a kind nurse who kindles understanding, prepares the way, comforts souls, lifts and strengthens. The Holy Spirit is like a mother at work in the church. We part of the 'mother who works' through prayer in which our soul is united to God through grace.
Prayer is not something we have to work on, we just do it because prayer is inspired by God and will be conformed to God by God. Prayer should be like a child to a parent and prayer is eternal. Julian says, "The Lord is first receiver of prayer...[He] sets in a storehouse."

Julian also insisted that we don't need to worry about figuring out God, but be satisfied with what is revealed. And the finality of that revelation is “Love was his meaning."

The day closed with Eucharist in the chapel at St. Alban's. Thanks to the Jane Torrance Sargent Chapter and to all who participated.